I need help!! (A problem my girl asked me)

[+mw.Chem]

Well me and my girl were at the movies yesterday and we were doing our thing lol. No one was in the movie barley and we were sitting in the corner makin out and stuff and i was basically holding her. We stopped for awhile and i was just had my arm around her and her head on my shoulders. She then grabbed my hand and put it on her stomach.(Up underneath her shirt lol) and looked at me and nodded. So I did what all boys would do, go inside her bra..haha. Her friend saw us and mentioned to us today about it. My g/f isnt the type of girl to do this but she did anyways. Her friend said I bet yall cant even go a year w/o going all the way..which she means sex. My girlfriend asked me what my opinion was on this. I didnt know what to say. My mom called me downstairs so im kinda trying to spare time and think about it. I need help badly b/c theres so many wrong answers to this.


any ideas on what to say??

Please help!

[Splendid]

I would be like when you are ready then we will do it. Or just ignore the question.

[+mw.Chem]

This is what I said..

I just told her that I don't like to set limits, and i don't want to live according to other people's expectations and opinions. All that really matters is what we think and feel and want. And I said that i know your really not that kind of person and I dont want you to not know how to express yourself and give me this stuff only b/c you think that its what every guy wants.

And she said it was the perfect answer! lol

[CheeKy]

I would have said the same. You shouldnt let someone control your life.

[Gilen]

how about *** yes i want sex within a year? o_o" how old are you?

[+mw.Chem]

15 lol

[miralize]

take your time. your still a child. enjoy it while you can

[Sean]

Baws too that :o Get her back to the cinema, See were else she puts your hand :D :lol:

[dook]

lol you played it well mate! :D

[DreamW8er]

depends...is she hot? nah j/k lol

[status.]

Chem! :D

Same girl from before?

[Evo]

Well, i know what id do ;)

You said the right thing tho, since your age..etc :D

[Ike86]

...... is all i have to say. Just don't mind it ignore it.

[DiEByMacro]

well, 15 is really young to do this stuff and you still have a lot of other things to mind, do not let this be a obstacle that may bother you all day , i think your answer is right . anyway, i have never seen such a girl like that even i'm 19 now lolzz

[Danta]

lol... there are more important things when you are 15 mate... if it happens it happens... but dont fret over it.... you covered yourself well btw

[.doubleK]

take your time.. don't rush into it.

[gremlin]

just say what do u think,and if u dont know what,try to get to another theme

[Aka]

Yeah, that answer was perfect man, it's what I would have said. You should just have sex when you feel like you both are ready and all.

[An1ken]

Well yes a lot of guys have mentioned it previously but, I'll say it again...Take your time on the matter, don't rush it! Sleeping together is seen as a token of love not a (thing) that you do. I mean your only 15 so you still have a long life ahead of you, enjoy it!

[RuN n GuN]

Wow 4+ months and ppl still replying?

But yeah, good answer Chem.
We talked about something similar to this on msn today so I'm not gonna say a lot
but just be careful. Don't do what I did unless you're ready to take on responsibility.

[.HG]

when both of you agree upon doing so !!

[+mw.Chem]

alright, this is super old. Can someone close this please?

[Tissue]

Be safe use a Trojan.