Should I?

[Hatori]

Ok.. I'm with my girlfriend everyday.. We go to her house she goes to mine.. I sleep in her house, she sleeps in mine.. But.. One night.. Something weird happened.. We were.. Uhmm yah, making out with each other in my house, with no one home and such.. Then, after some nightly smooching, a daily routine had been changed, she suddenly tried to take off my shirt and took off hers.. It was very shocking.. First time I saw her half naked... She took off everything off me except my boxers... I was fucking getting horny.. Yah.. All will do.. Then, after some time.. we were still smooching, she offered for me to take off her underwear.. I suddenly snapped and asked her.. Are you ready? she replied.. "I'm not sure" then I said, I think we shouldn't do it first.. and we slept half naked :rolleyes7: anyways, when we woke up.. We kinda thinked about what happened and tried talking it out if we will really do it and if we are ready.. Actually, I'm ready anytime xD but I also want her opinion... Next time this happens.. Will we continue or not?

Pictures of her

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If you think she is very young.. you got it wrong.. we are both 16 and yah... xD

Thanks :)

[BreeJaguar]

Whoo, tough one. Not to sure why you're asking a forum about this ;)
I feel obligated to answer, since I'm a girl (jaykay, I'd answer anyway :P).

Hm. In my honest opinion, if she's the one who started all of this taking off of the clothes -ness, then she's definitely thinking about it. But if she's a virgin, which I'm going to assume she is, then it's a very difficult and sensitive subject. First times are important to [most] girls. It's supposed to be special. Then there's the whole "we're not supposed to have sex" deal, which was one of my main issues with me last year. I was afraid that I'd feel like a slut to myself (not anybody else), for having sex at 15. It seemed like such a young age to me.

Anyway, I'm a very indecisive person, so it wasn't too easy for me to make a decision. If she's as indecisive as I am, chances are she's never fully going to make a true decision and is going to need your help. And by help, I don't mean telling her you guys should do it just because you want to. I mean like, if you truly think that it's the right time, tell her that.

Always make sure she's okay with it. Make sure she knows that she can always say no if she wants to. Under any circumstances do NOT make her feel like she has to do it.

And as for you, like I said, first times are [mostly] important. Be prepared that if it is indeed her first time, she might feel a little more betrayed should you guys break up than she will/would with anybody else.

All of this is subjective and completely my opinion. I hope I help :/

[+mw.DNE425]

Whoo, tough one. Not to sure why you're asking a forum about this ;)
I feel obligated to answer, since I'm a girl (jaykay, I'd answer anyway :P).

Hm. In my honest opinion, if she's the one who started all of this taking off of the clothes -ness, then she's definitely thinking about it. But if she's a virgin, which I'm going to assume she is, then it's a very difficult and sensitive subject. First times are important to [most] girls. It's supposed to be special. Then there's the whole "we're not supposed to have sex" deal, which was one of my main issues with me last year. I was afraid that I'd feel like a slut to myself (not anybody else), for having sex at 15. It seemed like such a young age to me.

Anyway, I'm a very indecisive person, so it wasn't too easy for me to make a decision. If she's as indecisive as I am, chances are she's never fully going to make a true decision and is going to need your help. And by help, I don't mean telling her you guys should do it just because you want to. I mean like, if you truly think that it's the right time, tell her that.

Always make sure she's okay with it. Make sure she knows that she can always say no if she wants to. Under any circumstances do NOT make her feel like she has to do it.

And as for you, like I said, first times are [mostly] important. Be prepared that if it is indeed her first time, she might feel a little more betrayed should you guys break up than she will/would with anybody else.

All of this is subjective and completely my opinion. I hope I help :/[/b]

u can always count on bree for sex and girl advice :)

[Hatori]

Lmao :# Anyways... I think I should think it up too.. Also, i posted it here, because I see no reason why not? This is the internet.. It's like everyone can stalk me :/ Thank you :)

[BreeJaguar]

xD I suppose that's true.

Anyway, yeah. Make sure you are positive it's the right thing to do before you do it. Sex is probably one of the most popular things that causes problems/break ups in relationships. So it's almost crucial that you are 100% sure of it.

[miralize]

you have your whole life ahead of you . take it slow. but if your sure go for it

[status.]

Make sure she is ready, as all of the people have said.

But remember, once you take your relationship to that level, theres no going back.

I am still a virgin myself, so I don't know if it makes THAT big of a difference, just a fair warning though. :)

Good luck.

[zain]

Take things slow but w.e it your life XD