Bisexual?

[Bradas]

Ok, So I've been having some weird thoughts lately, and im pretty sure that im 80% straight and 20% gay. So I'm bisexual...

Problem is, i really don't want to admit it, although i was very close to the other day.

I first knew about 3 weeks ago when i started going to an under 18's rock night at our local Nightclub and there were two guys making out, Usually i would have turned around and thought ''ewww'' but i just didnt feel like that, i actually wanted to do it.

Don't get me wrong, yes i have had sex with a girl who i loved greatly, and i have done nothing with another guy.

I'm just confused as what i should do, should i admit it now? or should i wait 3 weeks until i have completely left school?

Thanks for any advice

brad

[xcine]

Personally, I'd wait and see what happens.. you might not be & you might just be curious..
Wait until your entirely sure, cause it might not be the easiest thing telling people about it.

3 weeks really isn't long enough to be entirely certain that's what you'd be into..

[Bradas]

Yeah there's been one slight thing that made me think which has been going on for around 4 months, but thats only one small thing. Now i really feel as though i am. I could happily admit it, if only my friends weren't so homophobic and two faced. Shame you can;t pick your friends eh?

[xcine]

Hah. Friends suck, if they can't accept you for who you really are, then they're not worth being friends with.

I guess, really the only thing you can do is experiment as bad as that may sound to some people.. it's really the only way you'll find out if you'd like it, and really want it. Or.. imagine what it would be like, to do things with different people of the same sex, & if you like it.. well, that would kinda be a good indicator.

[hellzdev]

i would wait til uve finished school i would hate for some stupid students at school to be going around saying hes a bisexual, but i have a friend who is bisexual theres nothing wrong with it, i feel abit uncomfortable at times though when i see him

[Bradas]

Yeah I'm not going gung-ho with it until the end of school but i think I'm gonna tell a friend tomorrow (she's all cool not like the others), i just dont want her looking at me from a different perspective from then on.

Guess I'll have to experiment :P

Thanks for your replies :D

[murch]

yeah wait till your outta school man, your probably not and just curious bout whats goin on, wait a month or two its just a phase, then youll be back to chicks.

[Flow]

i would wait too...and dont try saying ur not if u no u r
dont think my friends wont be my friends if i am bi

[Argenteus]

It does really suck that society is so closed-minded, and that homosexuality soooo looked down upon that some people are actually scared to come out of the closet. I wouldn't say anything unless you find a guy that you want to be with, then I'd really think about what you are and what you aren't.

[RaD]

I don't know how old you are, but I would say what the others did, if you really got feelings for a boy, you should go for it. If you feel something for a girl then follow your instinct and go for that girl...

There is room for mistakes in your life. If you don't feel comfortable around boys then you can quit dating them and vice versa of course. :)

[Deater]

I was watching TV and a doctor said everyone has gay thoughts, the question is, Do you wont to be gay/bisexual. it also said that a average male thinks about sex every 52 seconds, maybe you just happen to think about guys, but do you wont to be with them? its all in your head, maybe you think your Bi and your not. I wouldnt go around saying you were just yet.

[Hootnnuts]

i would definately wait. like said earlier, u might just be curious. personaly, i have never wanted to kiss or have sex with a guy i love girls and not guys. but definately wait until u are sure.

[mw.Kris]

If you really have a urge do it, personally i would wait until the end of school so students that are immature won't spread shit about you. I have a gay friend who is the same age as me (14) and i just accepts him for who he is. I really don't care but i warned him not to come onto me. :biggrin2:

[Bradas]

Lol, Yeah i have never wanted to have sex with a guy, that just seems wrong... But hey, Lets see what the future brings xD

[Buffet]

No one should restrict your sexuality. It's yours. Do what you feel is right and good luck. :D

[SuicideForAbheng]

well i admit this to the other thread im a bisexual to at first its hard to accept u asking ur self why, how
but now i see that im 70%str8 and 30% gay
theres nothing wrong being a bi or a gay
like i always say
WE DIDN't CHOOSE TO BE LIKE THIS

[mikeyy209]

I was watching TV and a doctor said everyone has gay thoughts, the question is, Do you wont to be gay/bisexual. it also said that a average male thinks about sex every 52 seconds, maybe you just happen to think about guys, but do you wont to be with them? its all in your head, maybe you think your Bi and your not. I wouldnt go around saying you were just yet.[/b]

I prve that theory.

Anyway be whatcha wanna be doesn't matter my school is a haven for bi's so I am used to it.
I don't know try it then if you don't like thats it end of discusion.

[Sephi]

WE DIDN't CHOOSE TO BE LIKE THIS[/b]

you can choose to be like this.. everything is in your head.. if you wathc house.. one of the eps.. hes on the areoplane.. and theres one person sick.. and Kuty and a blonde chick get sick.. BUT its in there heads.. the only real sick person was the asian.. that started it.. so if you want to be like this thats your choice.. but dont choose until your finished school.. at my schools gays/bi's are like emo's.. no1 likes them..

[xcine]

you can choose to be like this.. everything is in your head.. if you wathc house.. one of the eps.. hes on the areoplane.. and theres one person sick.. and Kuty and a blonde chick get sick.. BUT its in there heads.. the only real sick person was the asian.. that started it.. so if you want to be like this thats your choice.. but dont choose until your finished school.. at my schools gays/bi's are like emo's.. no1 likes them..[/b]Why would someone willingly choose to be something that a great deal of people in this world hate?

[.Scream]

Ok, So I've been having some weird thoughts lately, and im pretty sure that im 80% straight and 20% gay. So I'm bisexual...

Problem is, i really don't want to admit it, although i was very close to the other day.[/b]

I think its wierd too. I get something like that. But I'm pretty sure that I'm straight. When you look at good looking guys, Its wierd because you look at them more then you think 'Hey wtf is going on here?! Look away goddammit'. I think of it as wanting to be like them, they look cool.
I wouldn't think as myself being bisexual, 100% straight.

[Penis Ninja]

you can choose to be like this.. everything is in your head.. if you wathc house.. one of the eps.. hes on the areoplane.. and theres one person sick.. and Kuty and a blonde chick get sick.. BUT its in there heads.. the only real sick person was the asian.. that started it.. so if you want to be like this thats your choice.. but dont choose until your finished school.. at my schools gays/bi's are like emo's.. no1 likes them..[/b]It's not all in the head. Being gay, lesbian, bi [although I don't believe in people being bi] used to be classified as a psychological disorder. So it isn't something you can control. Yes, you CAN make yourself sick, but making yourself gay/lesbian/bi? Not possible.

[Argenteus]

And WHY would anyone choose to be gay? Why would anyone conciously choose to be a part of a minority that will always be frowned and looked down upon and constantly tormented?

I don't think anyone chooses to be gay/bi whatever.

[aspect]

Two points.

Not that I have anything against bi's. o_o

1. Well, I read a book and it's like, if you THINK something you eat has some disease on it, you're gonna get that disease. No one WANTS disease, right?

2. In some magazine, it said that everyone is at LEAST 1% gay or lesbian. Why? Well, girls know which girls are hot, even if they don't like them, and guys know which guys are hot.

So like. Everyone is basically bi, even if its like .5% o_o

[Exo]

i hate when people use gay/bisexual as a slag in school . wtf is wrong with being gay ? im not gay but i dont judge anyone for being it

[Thrasher]

What about saying about an other boy that he is good looking, do you think this is gay??

[Argenteus]

I don't think that's gay at all. Everyone, in some way, judges someone of the opposite sex. That's how they know how to get dressed in the morning and what kind of clothes to wear.

[myaim]

I don't think that's gay at all. Everyone, in some way, judges someone of the opposite sex. That's how they know how to get dressed in the morning and what kind of clothes to wear.[/b]
yes i agreee w/ that. i think u should say it wen u want to. or wen u think its an approprate time. i think ever1 secondes guesses themself atleast once in there life so take your time. ive second guessed my sexuality and i thought i was but now i have a gf. every guy and girl expresses something the opposite sex would do its not that big of a deal. just go w/ what u think is right and thats al i can really say.