Problem..

[Aloe]

While I was on my holiday in Luxembourg I met a really nice guy, we kissed.. Hes in love, Im not.. and besides he lives 300 KM away from me.. (I live in the north of The Netherlands, he lives in the south.. (Maastricht).
I dunno what to do, he wants to meet etc.. But Me and long distance relationships doesnt work.. :/..
I mean if i want to go to him, it will take me 4 hours to get there :/.. Though Im afraid Ill break his heart or something.. And also I saw it more like a vacation love if you know what I mean, but he was really serieus about it, saying boyfriend/girlfriend etc.. but thats absolutely not what I want..

Hes in love and Im not at all, Im strugeling with thoughts.. Im afraid to say it to him.. :/..

Photo of us

http://i13.tinypic.com/6hcodc0.jpg

I really dont know what to do.. :S Im sure if I do agree with the relationship Im sure Ill kiss someone else, becuase like i said long relation ships doesnt work for me.. but if I dont agree and say it wont work im afraid he will get mad at me etc.. which I dont want euther :unsure5:

Help needed very very much..

[Serenity]

You two look kinda cute together. :o

Then again, you look good yourself anyway. :P

I'd say to go for it, but get a back-up dude.

It's always good to have someone to fall back on, ya know?

[mw.Kris]

Dang this is a tough situation...i don't know really...i wish i could help you know ? i am not entirely experienced with love, but i would stop it, say, like can we just be friends or something ?
Oh btw, glad to have you back :)

[¤ ßkLãZé ¤]

*imo* tell him it just wouldnt work out even though you are interested in him.but dont let him off hard becuz then it could hurt him and/or your relationship... friend or couple

[Marieke]

I agree with Bklaze :) You don't help him by sacrifizing yourself to get in a relationship with him.. You say you like him, but not as a BF, so it prolly isn't gonna last very long... You will break his heart even more at that time, and you won't be happy till then cause you're worried to hurt him... Tell him in a nice way that you only want to be friends, in the end he will prolly understand it ^^
Good luck "meis" with your desicion, love isn't easy!

(ps. maastricht - NH is idd far away! :/)

[Aloe]

I told him what I thought, dunno really how he feels now O_o.. I said it on msn so yeh.. ah well glad I said it :).

[Marieke]

Nice to hear you feel better ^^ Telling it on msn isn't the best way, but it's hard to tell him in person if you live 200 km from eachother ;)

[Aloe]

Yeh I would have called him but I dont have his mobile phone number :/.. ah well.. I prolly wont see him anyway anymore so..